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Tom and Mary Milano
TomandMaryMilano@Yahoo.com

Age: 74
Occupation: Restauranteur

Cruise Line: Princess

Ship: Ocean Princess
Sailing Date: October 11th, 2001 
Itinerary: 10-Day Eastern Caribbean Islander

(It’s a long review...it’s much easier and more enjoyable to read if you print it.)

THIS CRUISE...REAFFIRMED WHY WE ARE PASSIONATE ABOUT CRUISING:

For Mary & I, there is nothing quite like being on a beautiful cruise ship, being pampered and catered too. Our 24th cruise on the Ocean Princess encompassed all the reasons we love to cruise.

The period of time between our Voyager cruise this past May and our Ocean Princess cruise October 11th, is the longest we have gone without cruising in the last three years.  I make this point because this was our 24th cruise in 5-1/2 years and as our departure date approached we were just as excited as if it was our first.

We were fortunate to be able to retire in 1973 and during the ensuing years we took land vacations all over the world.  Although we enjoyed our vacations, we never had an overwhelming desire to do any one of them again, no less to do it 23 more times.  As we have said in many reviews, Mary & I refer to our cruises as ‘Honeymoons’ because we  can’t think of a more romantic, intimate way of spending quality time with the one you love, then when cruising.  The atmosphere created by these magnificent floating resorts, affords couples the opportunity to relive that very special moment of their life, but with a more mature, reasoned approach.  It isn’t often in life that couples have a chance to recapture such a special moment, a chance to do it over again.  As older married couples know, love grows even sweeter and more satisfying as one’s friendship in marriage deepens and expands.  Cruising is a wonderful way to give expression to those feelings. When Princess coined the expression the ‘Love Boat,’ I don’t think they realized they were speaking for the entire industry.

WHY WE WRITE REVIEWS:
Our main purpose for writing a review is to help you decide if this is the ship you would like to book for your next cruise.  Although we have made 24 cruises, we do not profess  to be cruise experts. We just love cruising and we share our experience hoping it might help you.  We will give you our opinion on many things, it doesn’t mean we’re right...it’s just our opinion.  Please remember that a review is written from the writers perspective which might be very different from yours.  Remember the words from a popular song of bygone days, the one in which they pronounced things differently. “You say pototoes, and I say potatoes,” “You say tomotos and I say tomatoes.” We not only pronounce things differently but we also view things in different ways.  When you read our review, don’t be alarmed by some of the things we say. Take what you can from it and disregard the rest.  If you have any questions, send us an e-mail and we will try to answer them, especially those from first time cruisers.

HOW TO EXPEDITE THE READING OF THIS REVIEW:
In order to expedite the reading of this review for our regular readers, we have decided to combine our past suggestions, ones that you might find repetitive, in a paragraph at the end of our review.  First time readers and those of you who would like to read our suggestions again, can find them in a paragraph entitled ‘SUGGESTIONS THAT COULD ENHANCE YOUR CRUISE, just before our ‘LOOSE ENDS & RANDOM THOUGHTS SECTION.

NEW SUGGESTIONS IN BOLD LETTERS:
If we think there is something of importance for you to remember, we will print it in CAPITAL LETTERS at the end of the paragraph and if there is an [S] after a comment, you can read more about it in our Suggestion paragraph.

PRE CRUISE THINGS TO DO:
You will also find a complete list of the things we suggest you do, “Before...During...and After” your cruise, at the end of this review.  We think you will find it helpful.

EMBARKATION:
Tightened Security Made Us Feel Secure.

There is much stricter control of access to the port.  We had to show our ticket as we entered the port area and also at the entrance to the terminal. The crew and port security examine every single item that is brought aboard ship.

When we checked  in, we first had to go through a metal detector and than our carry-on luggage was screened.  As we left the screening area another security agent checked us with a hand wand.  When we arrived at the counter, the attendant checked our photo ID’s once more.  Just before we boarded we had our embarkation photos taken, then we had to insert our room key pass into a machine, that keeps tract of every passenger that boards or leaves the ship.

Police Boats keep pleasure craft and jet skiers three hundred yards from all cruise ships. Coast Guard cutters now escort all cruise ships in and out of port.  All commercial vessels are required to give 96 hours notice, ( previously 24 hrs) before entering a U.S. port.

At the port of St. Thomas, before anyone was allowed to go ashore, we received a notice to muster at the entrance to the show lounge.  We had to hold our notice in our hand, with our  passport or photo ID opened and ready to be viewed.  Agents from three different Government agencies conducted the procedure. This type muster was also conducted  the morning of debarkation.  We were surprised how smoothly it went.

When leaving the ship in port, you had to insert the key pass in a machine and then again upon returning.  These automated systems enable security personnel to know who is on the ship at any given time.  All packages coming aboard, both passengers and crew, are hand searched.

Most cruise lines have on board security personnel, who are indistinguishable from the passengers.  In fact, the Princess line has the  famed Nepalese fighters of the British Army, the Gurkahs, for their fleet security force.

The Bottom Line: Cruising is probably the safest choice of any vacation plans you can make. If you book a cruise, when you arrive at the terminal, be patient.  You may encounter some lines and it may take a little longer to board,  but remember, all the additional security measures are being done  for your safety!

EMBARKATION DAY:
Join us as we drive to Ft. Lauderdale to board the Ocean Princess for our 10-Day Eastern Caribbean  cruise to the islands of Antigua, Barbados, St. Lucia, St Maarten, St. Thomas and Princess Cays.  After arranging the luggage in the trunk, I checked to make sure we had our favorite CD’s, the ones we will be playing as we drive to Ft.  Lauderdale to board the Ocean Princess....We invite our readers to join us...as we drive to Ft.  Lauderdale...to embark on our  24th ‘Honeymoon’ cruise.

It never fails to amaze us that after cruising as often as we do we still get excited  when we know we will be boarding our ship within a few hours.  We started our journey in great spirits as we anticipated the many special moments we would share.  When we drive, Mary is in charge of the CD player.  The first CD she selected was my favorite.  It was Pedro Vargas singing a medley of his favorite romantic ballads and like magic we began to feel the tranquil mood of the Caribbean slowly fall upon us.  Mary continued playing all our favorites and the time passed quickly. It wasn’t long before we are passing the Ft.  Lauderdale airport on the way to the terminal.  Out of the corner of my eye I noticed Mary looking at me in a strange way. I asked her why she was staring at me.  She said, “Your eyes have that glazed look and I was wondering if you’re tired from the drive or if that Wimpy thing is happening.” I reacted very slowly...I took her hand and smiled...and I said to her in a very soft, sultry voice... “My lady Mary...I want you to know...you now have Wimpy at your complete disposal...for the next ten days.” Mary bust out laughing and said, “Macho Man, you had better mean that.” I know your looking at us from the back seat wondering what the heck are they talking about?  The explanation is rather simple as our regular readers know.  A number of cruises ago, I found that when I took on my Wimpy persona, doing all the little things I know Mary loves, she gave me a lot more reason to smile than when I was Macho man.  My mother didn’t raise no dum...dum!  It didn’t take me long to get the message...I said good-bye to Macho Man...and I’m happy to tell you, I’ve been smiling ever since.

As you can see, we have  finally arrived at the  terminal and we have the porters take our luggage.  I parked our car in the nearby garage and walked back to terminal.  We arrived inside the terminal at 12:15 and we boarded at 1:30.  This was an hour longer than it usually takes but the extra time is was a small price to pay to feel safe and secure. We entered the ship in the Atrium area on the 5th deck.  As we entered and looked across the expanse of the deck and the floating stairways spiraling upward, the view was absolutely breathe taking. Everywhere we looked was a statement of elegance....come with us as we take an elevator to the Baja deck and look for our Cabin, B-217.

CABIN B-217
Before we tell you about our cabin appointments, we have to do a few things that will help create the proper atmosphere for our ‘Honeymoon.’ I looked around for the wall outlets and sure enough there was only one  by the desk.  We had two Wizard Plug-Ins and a night light and only one outlet...we experienced the same dilemma on our last cruise but this time I was prepared.  We brought with us one short extension cord with three outlets and a plug-in unit consisting of three outlets. I plugged in the three outlet unit by the desk and plugged in two of the Gardenia Wizards.  Then I unplugged the television and plugged in the extension cord, night light and the TV. Within minutes the fragrance of Gardenias, Mary’s favorite flower, began to fill the room.  It was time for lunch but I had trouble making up my mind, if I wanted to go to lunch or take a nap...but my better judgement prevailed and we decided on lunch.  But before we go, let me describe our accommodations.

The cabin was done in warm earth tones with splashes of blue and there was a large window on the far end.  It had a king size bed covered with a beautifully designed spread.  There was a large wall mirror behind it and next to it was a desk with another large mirror, which gave the room a very expansive feeling.  The desk had three large drawers on each side.  Across from the desk is a wall table that held the TV with shelf room on the side.  Under it was a true refrigerator.  I give Princess high marks for this, they weren’t trying to sell anything.  The entire area was available for anything you wanted refrigerate.  I had been in the habit of ordering bottle water on past cruises until I realized the ships water tasted as good as anything I was buying.  On the Princess we drank the bottle of water that you normally find on the desk and then I kept refilling it with ship’s water,  and kept it in the refrigerator.  We always had cold water without having to use ice. Next to the bed was a night table with two drawers...which Mary allowed me to use.  The closet was a work of art.  It wasn’t overly large but the size of the compartments was perfect for our extensive wardrobe. Just the right amount of room for long gowns and dresses, two compartments with just the right height for my suits and jackets and shirts and another two pull out drawers in the safe compartment.  The safe was the easiest of any I have used.  In fact, I didn’t have to call the head housekeeper, even once, to unlock the safe for me.  Last but not least is the bathroom.  It wasn’t much bigger than two telephone booths. This created a problem for awhile because we travel with a full pharmacy but to our surprise we got used to it and managed very well.  The shower is another story.  Instead of my trying to describe the size, I am going to tell you a joke the Comedian Rick Starr told.  He said he found that the best way for him to take a shower, was to soap the walls and spin around four or five times.  I tried it but it didn’t work....I bet your getting hungry and so  are we...join us as we go to lunch in Horizon Court.  On the way out we met our cabin attendant Constantino.  We exchanged pleasantries and I did our pre-tipping thing.  He was very pleased and he readily agreed for us staying in our cabin on disembarkation day until our color was called. [S]  REMEMBER: A  SHORT EXTENSION CORD AND A WALL OUTLET UNIT.

THE HORIZON COURT:
This lunch area is one of the finest at sea.  We found it much improved over similar areas on former Princess cruises. Everything is laid out in a concentric circle.  On the outer edge of the circle are tables and chairs, with a back drop of floor to ceiling glass walls, which provide a spectacular view of the ocean.  The inner circles are composed of settees and tables. The appointments of the room are very striking and very beautiful.  The tables, chairs, counters, ceilings and rugs all spell quality in capital letters.

Instead of having one long line for the buffet items, they have several separate stations featuring various luncheon items displayed in a very attractive way.  One station had nothing but Vegatarian items.  They also featured a Sushi & Fruit Buffet.  The Sushi buffet had every imaginable item and the Fruit buffet was

something to behold. Having made the number of cruises we have, we have seen just about every conceivable carving of fruit and vegetables but we have never seen anything the likes of what we saw aboard the Ocean Princess.  The carvings were the most imaginative, creative works we have ever viewed.  They were worthy of being called works of art.  Make sure you take your camera.  To add to your enjoyment, from 12:00 to 1:00, Neil Parkinson sits at the white baby grand in the center of the Horizon playing your favorite melodies.  In the evening, part of the Horizon becomes the Sterling Steak House.  We didn’t have an opportunity to dine there but we heard the steaks were outstanding.

We had a delightful lunch.  Our main course was Pasta with Marinara sauce and I ordered a nice Cabernet Sauvignon for Mary.  When the wine was served, with the strains of ‘Unforgettable’ playing in the back ground, Wimpy squeezed Mary’s hand and told her she reminded him of a fine Bordeaux wine...because a fine Bordeaux  gets smoother and more velvety with age...just like her.  Mary squeezed my  hand and gave me one of those...how sweet that was looks...and then she leaned over and whispered in my ear...“??...??...??.”...I won’t reveal what Mary said to me but I can tell you, my pulse rate increased and my heart skipped a beat...another nice tender moment to add to our shipboard memories and we haven’t even left the pier...While we’re on the 14th deck, let’s check out the pool area and the spa.

Pool Area & Spa:
The pool area consists of two pools and four Jacuzzis.  One pool has a constant depth of four feet,  just right for Mary and the larger pool is six feet at the deep end.. The layout is very nice and the over all appearance very attractive.  The bandstand is situated in a good location, where everyone can view it.  There was an abundance of lounge chairs, we never had a problem finding an empty one.  The outdoor grill, the Riviera Grill, featuring hamburgers and hot dogs, was on the upper deck overlooking the pools. On the way to the spa we pass the Hagen Daz counter where you can buy sundaes and shakes.

The Spa offers all kinds of body treatments to make our ladies feel even more beautiful and the exercise room has all the modern equipment to help us develop our bodies so we can be on the cover of Muscle Man magazine.  All we need is the motivation.  I normally workout 45 minutes, three times a week and walk one or two miles a day.  When we cruise, my only motivation is to take my lady Mary to breakfast in the main dining room.

In this area, you will find a small circular pool that is heated to a very comfortable temperature.  There is a Jacuzzi on both sides.  The pool has a see through dome protecting you fron the weather. Sometime during mid-morning we would come here, soak in a Jacuzzi for awhile and then languish in the tepid water of the pool.  It was a delightful way to start the day.  Also in this area was the children’s area, ‘The Fun Factory.’ now we’re going to have you come with us as we check our seating arrangements and then we will make a quick tour of the ship.

CHECKING TABLE ASSIGNMENT & A QUICK TOUR OF SHIP:

We encountered a long line waiting to see the Maitre`de. [S]  When it came our turn, even though our agent faxed the dining room coordinator and I had a copy of the fax in my hand, our seating arrangements were all messed up.  When I found out that it was just the opposite of what we wanted, I got real irritated and let him know I was mad.  In fact, I was so mad that I didn’t realize he was resolving my problem as I was speaking to him. The Maitre`des’ name was Genorosa Mazzone.  He not only resolved our problem but  he and his head waiter, Giuseppe Franchina, helped make our cruise very special.  Generosa is the epitome of what a Maitre`de should be and Giuseppe is following in his footsteps.  (BTW...Generosa’s picture appears in the Princess brochure Caribbean 2001–2002, on page 17.)  We will be telling you about our very enjoyable dining room experience a little later in our review.

TOUR OF THE OCEAN PRINCESS:
We think the best way to describe the ship to you and relate our cruise experience,  is to take you to each of the  venues, describe them to you and tell you about some of our special moments.  At the close of our review will give you our over-all opinion of the ship, it’s restaurants, the crew and the entertainment....come along with us as we start at the lower deck of the Atrium.

The heart of the ship is the forward Atrium, which encompasses the 5th, 6th and 7th decks.  It is a beautiful display of what creative designers can do when given the green light.  Enclosed is a picture of a part of this area.  Notice the magnificent floating stairways, the stained glass ceiling, and the gorgeous carpeting. This picture doesn’t give you a minuscule idea of the beauty of this ship.  The Ocean Princess is one of the most beautiful ships of all the ships we have cruised on.

On one side of the Atrium on the deck #5 is the Pursers area, the Excursion Desk and the Captains Circle Hospitality Desk.  On the other side of this large circular Atrium is the Patisserie Bar, where you can order, Cappuccino, Espresso, Coffee Lotte, or your favorite cocktail or drink while your enjoying an assortment of pastries that are free.  It enjoins an open lounge with settees and cocktail tables.  At various times during the day we would saunter down to the pursers desk, pick up two copies of the ships edition of the New York Times, find a settee with an ocean view, order two Cappuccinos and catch up on the happenings in the world.

Between these two areas you will find the Tuscan dining room which is used for personal choice dining. Princess has a way of segmenting their dining rooms with polished wood petitions,  topped with and etched glass, that is not only pleasing to the eye but are also very functional.  It offers a feeling of privacy.

This is the dining room where we had a table reserved for us with the same team of servers for the entire cruise. While we are here, we are going to tell you about our very special dining room experience.  Our servers, who I fondly called the Romanian connection, were outstanding.  The waiter was Ruda and his assistant was Yanciou.  The could have changed positions without losing a beat.  I ordered a bottle of wine for Mary and when it was served I did our pre-tipping thing. [S]  They were very pleased.  I explained to Ruda, what we expected of him when we ordered, [S] and he was pleased that we respected his opinion. Each evening when we were seated, Yanciou immediately poured Mary’s wine and he made sure my bottle of  non-alcoholic beer was on the table.  Ruda & Yanciou added immeasurably to our enjoyment.

Maitre`de Generosa was always at the entrance of the Tuscan,  ready to greet his guests  with a big smile and a cheery hello.  He was very busy but he made it a point to stop by the table each evening to see if there was anything he could do.  His assistant, head waiter Guiseppi Franchina, had a winning personality and was a true working head waiter; he was everywhere, making sure his waiters were taking care of their guests.

The food was the best we have ever had on Princess.  We had a number of memorable dishes, one was our favorite, Rack of Lamb.  Mary likes hers with no pink, I like mine with a pink center, medium.  Both servings were just what we ordered.  Ruda was always standing by, waiting for any sign of dissatisfaction, ready to bring us whatever we wanted.  The Shrimp and the Lobster Tails were exceptional.  The best part of any meal for Mary is the dessert and her favorite dessert of all time is a Souffle.  Very few restaurants make them because it takes a skilled Pastry chef to make the batter so it doesn’t collapse when serving. She was in her glory on this cruise.  Six different nights Souffles were on the menu and we both ordered them every time.  We had a different flavor each time, always with Zabaglione sauce.  We added our own twist.  We had Ruda bring us two servings of Hagen Daz vanilla ice cream ( that is all Princess serves) and added it to the Souffle with the Zabaglione. I’m telling you, we were in gourmet heaven.  After dinner it would have helped if we had Guiseppi put us in two wheel chairs and wheel us to our room for a short nap....BTW, this is the first cruise ship we could have Cappuccino or Espresso istead of coffee, at no extra charge.  We had Cappuccino every night and it was delicious.

I diet between cruises otherwise I would look like the Goodyear Blimp.  I lost 18 lbs since our last cruise and I gained five back on this one.  Now I have to hurry up and lose 5 lbs before our November 23rd cruise.  Mary is lucky, her weight doesn’t change that much.  Her dress size varies between a 4 and a 6, the same as when we were married.  I have told you what her secret is and why it’s my downfall. She always leaves something on her plate and I always manage to finish it.

The 6th deck is comprised of the shopping area, that has the usual array of stores you find on most ships. This is also the location of the Sardinian dining room which has the same arrangement as the Tuscan.  Afternoon tea was served in the Sardinian every afternoon from 3:30 to 4:30.  Neil Parkinson provided piano music as we enjoyed our Scones, served with Strawberry jelly and sweet cream.  They were delicious. A nice thing to do after watching a movie. We rarely missed it.

We also had  lunch  in this dining room.  We had the same servers each day and as coincidence would have it, they were also from Romania, Eion and Jon.  We not only had great service but we became very friendly and we learned a lot about their families and their country.  We looked forward to seeing them each day.

The 7th deck was the main thoroughfare.  It was always bustling with activity.  On the starboard side, (that’s nautical for right...I finally remembered that after our 20th cruise) is the Atrium Bar, a broad area with comfortable lounges and settees.  On the port side ( you guessed it...that’s the left) along the entire length of the wall are comfortable seating arrangements with cocktail tables.  In the very center of the Atrium is the domain of “The Great Brit,” Barrington ‘Barty’ Brown.  He is an absolutely delightful gentleman who has been with Princess for many few years.  He’s not Irish but we’re sure he’s a leprechaun.  He has a glorious head of snow white hair, with bushy white eye brows to match. He reigns at his white baby grand piano from 9:00 to 12:00 every evening.  He plays and sings requests for his always large audience, usually a hundred or more, that fill the entire Atrium bar and wall seating areas.  He has his audience sing along with him, as he  sings the memorable songs of by gone days.  It brought back memories and thrilled my heart to hear some of those grand old songs my father and  uncles sang during family gatherings, when I was a kid; songs such as, All of Me, On The Sunny Side of the Street, A Shanty in Old Shanty Town, The Downtown Strutters Ball, Pennies From Heaven and on and on.  A beautiful aside is, there was a wide walkway to the Wheelhouse lounge and the main Showroom that passed by the piano. While  he was playing and singing and as the people approached from a distance, they would join in and sing along with Barty as they passed by.  This grand old gentleman, Barty Brown, provided us with many very special moments.

Also on the 7th deck, is The Wheelhouse Lounge, our favorite lounge at sea, or for that matter also on land  It’s a beautiful room done in dark wood paneling with ships models and memorabilia in various parts of the room.  The seating arrangements included areas with groupings of  high backed arm chairs, comfortable period settees, end tables with lamps, what you might see if you if you entered the sitting room in an English manor.  On one side of the room is a small intimate bar. Two different combos were featured every evening, The Ray Perry Trio and The Stowaways.  It was a very popular place to go before and after the shows.  We stopped by most evenings before and after dinner.  What could be better than to have your loved one in your arms as you listen to the beautiful romantic ballads of the past. We did a lot of that...hold me tight dancing...the kind of dancing that doesn’t require much of a dance floor...the kind of dancing  that allows us to communicate our feelings...without saying a word....before we walk  forward to the Showroom, lets sit and have a drink and I’ll tell you a very heart warming story how those glorious old ballads have an effect on us regardless of our age.

The cruise ship was crowded with people off for a week of pleasure. Ahead of me in the passageway walked a tiny woman in brown slacks, her shoulders hunched, her white hair cut in a bob. From the ship's intercom came a familiar tune, "Begin the Beguine." And suddenly a wonderful thing happened. The women, unaware anyone was behind her, did a quick and graceful dance step, back, shuffle and slide. As she reached the door to the dining room, she reassembled her dignity and stepped soberly through.

Younger people often think folks our age are beyond romance, dancing or dreams. They don't see the people who live inside....we are the wise old codgers, the dignified matrons. No one would ever know that I am still the skinny girl who grew up in a leafy suburb of  Boston. Inside, I still think of myself as the youngest child in a vicarious family headed by a mother of great beauty and a father of unfailing good cheer.

And I am still the romantic teenager who longed for love, the young adult who aspired to social respectability but whom should I tell. We are like the women in the ship's passageway, in whom the music still echoes. We are the sum of all the lives once lived. We show the grown-up part, but inside we are still laughing children, the shy teens, the dreamed filled youths. There still exists, most real, the matrix of all we were or ever yearn to be. In our hearts we still hear, "Begin the Beguine," and when we are alone, we dance.>>

The beautiful story I have just related to you is a fairly apt description of the way Mary & I feel.  We may be in our twilight years but we still have those wonderful romantic ballads playing in our hearts, just as they did many years ago....it reminds me of a saying on the front of a Valentine card Mary gave me last year...it said... “The Music of Life is Love...Each Couple Makes it’s Own Beautiful  Music.” Leave it to my Mary...she always finds the right thought for the occasion...I think you’ve heard enough of our sentimentality.... lets finish  our drinks and we’ll walk with you to Showroom theater.

Just forward of the Wheelhouse lounge is the Princess Theater.  The showroom has what is called theater seating, because as the term implies, the seating is the same as you would find in a theater.  There was only two isles, none on the outer walls.  Unless you were seated dead center in the row, you had to stand every time  anyone was seated past you.  I normally like to order Mary an after dinner drink while we’re waiting for the show to start but I couldn’t do that because there wasn’t any drink service. Not a very good idea.

First run movies are shown in the showroom every afternoon, followed by afternoon tea in the Sardinian dining room.  We are not movie buffs, but we did see two very good movies...What a Women Wants and Return to Love.  Both had good story lines and good acting....We are now going to walk you to the far end of the ship (aft) to the Vista Lounge.  Along the way we will tell you about some of the venues we will be passing. We will tell you about the entertainment after we visit the Vista Lounge....

As we leave the showroom walking toward the Atrium, we can hear Barty Brown singing.   As we pass by where he’s playing, a large group of us join him in singing, that old timer, “Ain’t she sweet...see her coming down the street, now I ask you very confidentially...Ain’t she sweet.”...by the time we finished that line, we were leaving the larger Atrium and we entered a smaller

Atrium.  It was two decks high, with a domed ceiling off stained glass made in the form of a roulette wheel. On the left was the Apres-Vous Lounge, an intimate cocktail bar featuring the melodies of guitarist Don Scott.  On the opposite side of the circle wall, was a spiral stairway leading to the Casino.  Princess did something that isn’t usually done on cruise ships.  The Casino was an entity by itself.  You didn’t have to walk through it to go forward or aft.  The Casino wasn’t as gaudy and loud as they usually are but in all other respects, it was just another Casino.  You can tell Casinos are not our cup of tea.

The only other venue on deck #8 is Fabio’s Pizzeria, which is just forward of the Casino.  We have a fun story to tell you.  A few days into our cruise we decided to have pizza for lunch.  As you can see by the picture, the Pizzeria is beautifully appointed.  We sat at a table with side by side seating.  I ordered  Mary a glass of Burgundy and then we looked at the menu.  All the Pizzas are made to order and it takes about fifteen minutes.  When we got our Pizzas we were surprised how good they were but there was something missing.  The silence was deafening. What was missing was music and specifically, Italian music, you know the kind with the mandolins in the background.  I asked to speak to the manger.  I did the $2 thing [S], and in a fun way, I told him what a beautiful room it was and the food was great but it would even be better if there was Italian background music.  He very enthusiastically agreed with me and with a big smile on his face, he said he would see would he could do about it.

Later during the cruise we again went to Fabio’s and this time we sat close to the area where they make the Pizza.  The kitchen is open to viewing.  From your table you can watch them make the Pizzas. Half way through our lunch I thought I heard someone singing.  At first I thought they acted on my suggestion and were playing background music but when I listened more intently, I thought I heard our name mentioned

...Sure enough  I  turned around and there in the kitchen, the Manager and the kitchen crew were all singing to us.  ’$Ole Solo Mia...da  Milanos are here...Ole Solo Mia...shesa sucha dear.$’  We and the entire room had a good laugh. I went into the kitchen, shook their hands and thanked them and did the $2 thing with all of them. We are still laughing about that one.

A little further along the 7th deck on the left,  is the intimate cocktail lounge, Apres-Vous.  The decor is done tastefully and a guitarist, Don Scott plays they nightly.

To the right is a disco, the Spinners Nightclub.  The entire room done in a black and silver motif.  It wouldn’t surprise me if the designer was a Oakland Raider fan. This room never had much action.  I think the over all age of the passengers (60+) had something to do with that.

Next we pass through the expansive area of the photo shop.  This is where they display the pictures that are taken during the cruise and the ports of call.  The people who worked here were a very congenial group and did a very good job....we walk a short distance and we now approach the entrance to the Vista Lounge.  I want you to look around and you tell me if you’ve seen a more beautiful lounge?

The Vista Lounge Showroom:
Princess presents their entertainment in a different fashion than other lines.  They have a featured act performing in the Vista lounge and at the same time have another show in the Princess Theater.  Show time for both shows are approximately 8:30 and 10:45, usually for two consecutive nights.  If you wish, you can watch two shows in the same evening.

As you can see by the photo, the room has a very comfortable seating arrangement and has complete drink service.  This is also where the Captains Circle Club party was held.

Mary loves comedians and we were fortunate to see two very good ones.  Early in the cruise we watched Stu Moss and he was very funny but later in the cruise we saw Rick  Starr and he was hilarious.  We laughed so hard our eyes were tearing.  We watched the whole show with a handkerchief in our hand.  I remember one of his stories about everyone seems to be having a class reunion.  He said, “In my hometown in Pennsylvania, we had a reunion of our kindergarten class.  Yea, believe it or not, our kindergarten class....and three people showed up...I know your dying to ask me what we did?  Well, we started out by singing, ‘I’m a little teapot..short and stout..tip me over...pour me out... here is my handle...here is my spout.” As he was singing, he was dancing around, mimicking with body motions...the words of the song...then he stopped ...turned to the audience and said, come on ...you might as well sing with me...you remember the words...and the whole room of 450 adults joined him in singing...’I’m a Little Teapot’ as he danced around the stage mimicking the words.  It was a hilarious moment.  When everyone stopped laughing and calmed down...after a pause...he said, ‘We then sang, ‘Itsy Bitsy Spider” and of course the room exploded in laughter...knowing we were going to sing ‘Itsy Bitsy Spider”  with  him and we did.  It was even funnier than when we sang, ‘I’m a Little Teapot.’ After we wiped the tears from our eyes and the room gained some composure, “He said after we sang our songs...we had cookies and milk...and took a nap.” As you can imagine, the audience erupted in waves of laughter.  Laughter is a wonderful medicine for whatever ails you and Rick Starr sure gave us a the right prescription. We enjoyed him so much, we went back the next night and watched him perform again and he was just as funny.

Entertainment:  

The over all entertainment was very good.  We particularly liked having a choice as to  what show we would see. We saw three very good production shows.  Surprisingly, the last production show...’The Century Sings,’ the last night of the cruise, was the best.  It was held in the Vista lounge and a very talented group of singers did a great job singing the  hit songs of the 20's through the 70's & 80's.  Mary marveled at the fact that the girls had matching shoes for the many costume changes.  The production and the singing was first class and we thoroughly enjoyed it.

Greg Bonham:

We have seen Greg Bonham twice before and he was better than ever.  He has a great voice and a great delivery.  He also is an exceptional trumpet player, reminiscent of Doc Severson. His isn’t on the stage very long before he has the audience in the palm of his hand.  He keeps the audience spell bound throughout his performance.  He is one of the better single acts performing today..

We like the Wheelhouse lounge of Princess and the Rendezvous lounge on the Celebrity ships.  They play the kind of music we enjoy and have an intimate atmosphere...and now something we think all cruisers should know.

THOSE CRUISE LINE QUESTIONNAIRES:

What You Write on a Cruise Line Questionnaire Can Seriously Affect a Servers Pay! On one of our recent cruises, after having lunch in the main dining room, Mary & I relaxed and was enjoying our coffee and desert. An older server came to our table and asked us if we had enjoyed our lunch. A conversation ensued and when he learned we had owned a restaurant, it wasn’t long before we were chatting like old friends. A Maitre`de standing close by heard us and joined in the conversation. I asked them a series of questions about their operation and I was particularly interested in how many covers they give a waiter. I was totally surprised by their answer. They told me that it was entirely up to what was said about them on the questionnaire given out at the end of the cruise, the one that you find in your cabin on the last night. I asked them to explain what they meant. This is how it was explained to us.

A waiter/waitress is assigned a certain number of covers for the cruise. [Understand that the amount of money the server earns is governed by the amount of covers he/she is given.] Let’s assume the number is sixteen for the sake of this explanation.  If the waiter was to receive the suggested tip for the early and  late seating, he would earn approximately $50 a cover for a seven-day cruise. When the dining room remarks on the questionnaire are tabulated, at the end of the cruise, if he/she receives even one, yes even one negative comment of any kind, they will get fewer covers assigned to them on the next trip. If they get a negative remark two ($100) covers less are given to them.  If the remark is considered serious, four ($200), six ($300) or eight covers ($400) will be taken from them. They said it doesn’t happen often...but it has happened that a server has had the entire station ($800), taken from him/her and told to sit it out for the next week.

What we have said applies to the line we were cruising with but I’m sure  most cruise lines use the same or similar methods to ensure their servers perform to their expectations.  Our point is, if you have a serious complaint that has considerably lessened your enjoyment of your cruise, by all means register your complaint with the proper authority, but when you fill out the questionnaire, give serious thought to what you say about your dining room server, because even an off hand casual remark, can cost them to lose a significant part of their weekly pay.

Our closing remarks:
I don’t think we need to tell you...we love to cruise.  The very professional service we receive in the dining room of a cruise ship reminds us of what is missing in most of the restaurants of today,  quality, professional waiters and waitress’s. Part of this is due to the fact that our restaurants do not have the European help to draw on as they did in bygone days.  The European waiter was proud of his vocation to serve. Our American boys and girls were not brought up to believe that being a waiter was an honorable position.  That’s why you don’t see American waiters and waitress’s on cruise ships.  They don’t have the proper attitude or temperament. Can you think of an American boy or girl waking up one morning and telling father at the breakfast table, “Dad, I decided I want to be a waiter. It doesn’t happen.  We admire the servers, who while being away from their families for six month periods, go out of there way to make our dining experience so pleasurable.  They are the main reason we have become so passionate about cruising.

Mary and I had such a heart warming and memorable cruise, that we decided to book the Ocean Princess for our Valentines cruise.  We are thinking of alternating our bookings between Celebrity and Princess. They both seem to fulfill our expectations more than the other lines.  We are sailing on the new Celebrity Summit November 23rd and will decide if we want to book it for our Anniversary cruise during the end of April.  We wanted to book the Ocean Princess for one of our fall cruises but we understand the ship is being transferred to the parent Company, P&O.  Another reason for picking these ships is we have decided we like a ten day cruise.  We’ll keep you posted.

As we have said before, the beauty of the ship and the professional and friendly service of the crew account for 75% of our enjoyment of our cruise. I’m not usually at a loss of words, but I find it difficult to fully express our feelings about this cruise.  We have always had good relationships with all the personal aboard the ships we have sailed on, but on this cruise we bonded with the crew in a special way.  When we see them in the spring it will feel like we’re visiting old friends.

Tom Ogg, once again Mary & I want to thank you for having us as part of your team.  The calm, measured way you and your wife Joanie have reacted to a very difficult time in the travel industry is an inspiration to us.  For you readers who haven’t been to Tom’s page recently, http://www.cruisereviews.com make sure you check out the new formatting and his new book page. While other review pages have shut down, because of Tom’s continuing efforts to improve his site, Cruise Reviews is growing faster than ever.  If you have any comments or suggestions about his site, we know Tom would like to hear from you.  Tom@TomOgg.com

In closing, we want to leave you with something that is worthwhile to think about.  It is something Leo Buscaglia wrote, something that a lovely 81 year old women shared at a seminar.  She said in answering a question of what her needs were in the latter years of her life, she said, “All I need and ever needed was someone to love and someone to love me....nothing changes.”

I recently told Mary, we were very fortunate to have been blessed with such a wonderful marriage for our 33 years, especially since we were both married over 20 years in previous marriages.  But then I surprised her by saying, “Just think, in only another 17 years we will celebrate our 50th wedding anniversary.”  She laughed...she thought I was kidding...but I wasn’t.  Leo Buscaglia also wrote, Love...is... the fountain of youth, and I agree with him.  

May your next cruise be your best,
Our warmest regards,
Tom & Mary
TomandMaryMilano@Yahoo.com

SUGGESTIONS THAT COULD ENHANCE YOUR CRUISE

PRE CRUISE THINGS TO DO:
For those of you who are reading our reviews for the first time, we suggest some pre cruise things to do, that have greatly enhanced our cruise experience. READ: “Before, During and After Your Cruise.http://www.cruisereviews.com/Things2Do.htm READ: “How to Heighten Your Cruise Experience” http://www.cruisereviews.com/CruiseExperience.htm

Prepare Envelopes for Tipping Before you Leave for Your Cruise: Many of our readers have tried our suggestion on tipping with great results. Following are some examples of the many e-mails we received.

<<The tipping went very well. I would recommend it for everyone. All in all we had a delightful experience made even more so by the tipping method. >> Mike & Pat Ball

<< I followed your tip suggestion on our last cruise and had the best service of any cruise thus far. Jay Krueger

<<I’ve been on 18 previous cruises and I never had the service or got the attention like I did after pre tipping the crew on our last cruise. Your suggestion worked like magic and it didn’t cost any more than I normally tip. Thanks for a great suggestion. Mike Sullivan>>

We like to give the suggested tip for the week, to our cabin attendant, waiter and assistant waiter and Maitre`de, the first evening of our cruise. Tipping at the end of the week is like locking the barn door after the horse has run away. We make out [3x5] envelopes with a note that reads...This is a down payment on your services, Thank you, Tom & Mary Milano. On our [24] cruises we have never had service that was poor enough to warrant us tipping less than the suggested amount. By tipping the suggested amount on the first night, you let your servers know that you are appreciative of good service and they can expect an additional stipend at the end of the cruise. [At the end of the cruise we usually give an additional $20 to the waiter, $10 to the assistant and $10 or $20 to the cabin attendant]. Giving an extra forty dollars for the week, is  a small price to pay to ensure the very best from your servers. Take our word for it. It does make a difference. MAKE OUT ENVELOPES FOR PRE TIPPING.

Magic of the $2 Bill: If what we hear from our readers is true, banks should start running out of $2 in the new future. This again is another low-cost way of getting a high return. We start collecting $2 bills weeks before the cruise. We take with us $20--$30 in $2 bills. I call these our magic potion. I take a $2 bill and keep folding it until I have a small square, with the large imprint of the $2 covering the surface. I use the $2 a lot in the beginning of the cruise. It's important what you say when you give it, otherwise it doesn't have much significance. When I give it to a server, I say to them, give me your hand. When they give me their hand, I take it and with my other hand I show them the folded $2 bill; then I say to them, I want you to know this is a magic $2 bill and I can promise you that during this coming week something special is going to happen to you, something that will make you very happy. Very few servers have ever seen a $2 bill and that alone gets their rapt attention. Then you can see in their quizzical expression that their thinking; it's crazy but who knows. It might work. Who among us doesn't have some form of a lucky piece. A lucky coin, a rabbits foot, a religious medal. All we can tell you is, we have had the most amazing, wonderful things happen as a result of giving out these two dollar bills; not the least is the friendliness and the exceptional service we have received from our servers.  START COLLECTING $2 BILLS.

Make Your Luggage Easy to Spot: 85% of all luggage is black. It will save you a lot of time and aggravation if you put a colorful bow or luggage strap on your belongings. It is much easier to identify them among thousands of pieces of luggage on the terminal floor. TIE SOMETHING COLORFUL ON YOUR LUGGAGE.

The First Hours Aboard Ship Are Important:

Mary and I have found that there are certain things that we can do the first day that will set the tone or our entire cruise. The first thing we do is check our table assignment. We can’t stress enough the importance of doing this. It’s important to see if the table assigned you is what you requested.  If it isn’t, the Maitre`de has a chance to make the necessary changes.  If after the first evening, you are not happy with whom you’re seated, speak to the Maitre`de and ask to have your table changed. If he can possibly change it he will, he wants to make you happy. This is also the time to make your reservation for the ‘Alternative Restaurant’ if the ship has one.  They have very limited seating, so time is of the essence. CHECK YOUR TABLE ASSIGNMENT AND THEN MAKE RESERVATIONS FOR THE ALTERNATIVE RESTAURANT.

Our final suggestion is to ‘Write a Review:’
After you adjust to being back home and you slowly recover from after cruise depression,  sit down and write about all the wonderful things you experienced. You don't have to be a polished writer to write a review.  All you have to do is write as if you were having a conversation with your best friend. The important thing is to be honest and forthright. Writing a review is a wonderful way to relive your cruise, and at the same time help fellow cruisers by sharing your thoughts. Tell them your opinion of the ship, the food, the crew, the entertainment, the ports of call and any special moments you experienced.  Also write about the things that weren't so wonderful so your fellow cruisers can be forewarned.  Include your spouse and ask her/him for suggestions on what you should include. And remember, don't be afraid of writing too much, longer is better than shorter.  People are reading your review to determine if the ship your writing about is the one they should book.  Put yourself in their place and tell them all the things you would like to know. But whatever you do, the most important thing is for you to have fun and enjoy what your doing. When your review is finished, Tom Ogg would be happy to post it on his web site, CruiscReviews.com. If you need help, Mary and I would be glad to assist you.

LOOSE ENDS & RANDOM THOUGHTS

We Are Made For Love, not only to love, but to be loved. All hearts hunger for tenderness. Harshness pains us. Ungentleness touches our sensitive spirits as frost touches the flowers. It stunts the growth of all lovely things. Gentleness is like a genial summer of our life. Beneath its warm, nourishing influence beautiful things in us grow.

Louise Holley, a Beverage Server in the Wheelhouse Lounge: Louise is a sweet young English girl. She served us every time we went to the Wheelhouse,,,which was often.  It was a delight to see her.  After we got to know her, Mary asked her about her living conditions and she said she shared a room with a room mate and they had there own shower.  She also said the crew had there own dining rooms, bar and entertainment center.  She and her room mate were organizing, what she called a Black& White Ball.  She said crew always sees everyone all dressed up and they thought it would be nice to have a formal for the crew.  Mary & I thought that was a neat idea.  We look forward to seeing Louise in the Spring.  BTW, she is also receiving the ’Teaspoon’ along with crew on three other ships.

Ports of Call: We forgot to mention the Ports of Call in our review.  We didn't mention them for two reasons.  We have seen these ports many times before and we didn't think it advisable to go ashore at this time.

Our Favorite Inspirational Thought: Having communed with our heavenly Father, at sunrise, in the garden of prayer, reminds me of a certain valley in Romania where they grow nothing but roses for the Vienna market.  The perfume of the valley, in the time of the rose crop, is such that if you go into it for a few minutes, whereever you go the rest of the day, people know where you have been.  The fragrance goes with you.  Meeting Him in the morning causes the fragrance of His presence to go with you throughout the entire day.

We would like to hear any comments you might have on our "Suggestions" and our Loose Ends and Random Thoughts" section.

A Teaspoon of Spiritual Nourishment
Compiled by Tom & Mary Milano

Don’t Save Anything!

I'm reading more and dusting less.  I'm sitting in the yard and admiring the view without fussing about the weeds in the garden.  I'm spending more time with my family and friends and less time at work. Whenever possible, life should be a pattern of experiences to savor, not to endure.  I'm trying to recognize these moments now and cherish them. 

I’m not "saving" anything; we use our good china and crystal for every special event such as losing a pound, getting the sink unstopped, or the first Amaryllis blossom.  I'm not saving my good perfume for special parties, but wearing it for clerks in the hardware store and tellers at the bank.

"Someday" and "one of these days" are losing their grip on my vocabulary.  If it's worth  seeing or hearing or doing, I want to see and hear and do it now.

I'm not sure what my cousins would've done had they known that they wouldn't be here for the tomorrow that we all take for granted.  I think they would have called family members and a few close friends. They might have called a few former friends to apologize and mend fences for past squabbles.  I like to think they would have gone out for a Chinese dinner, or for whatever their favorite food was.  I'm guessing; I'll never know.

It's those little things left undone that would make me angry if I knew my hours were limited.  Angry because I hadn't written certain letters that I intended to write one of these days.  Angry and sorry that I didn't tell my husband and parents often enough how much I truly love them.  I'm trying very hard not to put off, hold back, or save anything that  would add laughter and luster to our lives.  And every morning when I open my eyes, I tell myself that it is special.  Every day, every minute, every breath truly is a gift from God.

Most important of all is the commitment to God you made a long time ago.  Be thankful every day for the countless blessings you take  for granted.  Live each day as if it were your last and not only will your life be richer and fuller but you may lead others to Him.  After all, isn't that the real reason God gave you life.

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Be thankful every day for the countless blessings you take  for granted

Some Favorite Thoughts on Love:*Love is the fountain of youth *Good listeners make good lovers.*Best friends make the best spouses.*Love is giving more and never keeping score. *Marriage is like operating a farm. You have to start all over again each morning.*Those who love deeply never grow old; they may die of old age, but they die young.*The secret of a happy marriage lies in finding out what pleases the other person, then doing the things that please them. *Success in marriage is more than finding the right person, it’s also a matter of being the right person

Friendship: Let it never be overlooked that we as friends must stand and be ready to do all that we expect our friends to be and to do. If we set a high standard for them, that standard must be ours also. It will not do to give pebbles and ask for diamonds in return.

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